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With so many 'fakes' in the world, it can be hard to establish a real person. Why not stand out by being true to yourself and the people around you? It is important as you will become more trusted by friends and family if you are real with others and yourself.
We all want to fit in, and you can fit in without changing yourself.
Steps
- 1Don't go along with the crowd. This is the most important step. Many times, we end up doing what everyone else is doing so we can fit in. But that's not the solution to being successful. Being real means being yourself. Also, when you are yourself, you end up with more friends. You attract like minded people to yourself and end up having some great conversations with such people. Remember this is possible only when you don't try to be or to do anything you are not meant to do. Just be the real you.
- 2Avoid toxic people. Toxic people are people that pressure you to do bad things. Don't give in to peer pressure. Ever. You'd be doing something that isn't you. When you're doing something you don't enjoy, you're not really being yourself, are you? See, the thing is we all have a dark and a bright side. But it is wise to just nurture the bright one.
- 3Its okay if you are not sure. If you aren't sure who you really are, forget about who you are right now, it will come to you eventually. Just write down all the qualities you would like to have and act as if you already have them. This is called reinventing yourself. It may be hard at first. But don't give up! Eventually, you'll be yourself, the person you want to be. Start form the easy ones and then move on to those which are a bit difficult to attain. Just don't pressurise yourself. Pressure does not always lead to positive things.
- 4Don't follow those typical notions. There are certain things that are considered as 'cool' and there isn't any explanation so as to why. Don't follow them if you do not believe in them. Things such as bunking, smoking and drinking can be considered as 'cool' in some places. But these have a bad impact in the long or short run. Remember anything and everything that has a negative impact is not 'cool' and can never be. Just believe in yourself.
mavnod
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