Steps
1- Determine how close or far away you are from what you consider being "selfless". Once you get an idea on how much you need to improve, the following steps will be much easier. If you are not sure if you're pretty close to selfless, or worlds away, there is a simple way to find out. When the opportunity comes to be selfless, write how you responded on a piece of paper. Make sure that you react how you normally would, because if you don't, that solution is pointless
2- It's time to begin. First things first, we should go into the definition of what selfless reallymeans. Being selfless is simply just putting others before yourself, right? Nope! When you're selfless you're not only living by that definition, you have to be willing to do this. The want to do this also helps as well.
3- Do more for others, but still take care of yourself. If you do more things for others, that's great. If you think you are selfless, that's wonderful. How many people do you know who are selfless, yet still care for themselves? You are just as important as anyone else is. So, now we should go into how you can be selfless but still care about yourself. So far, we have already clarified that when you do things for others, you put yourself out of the way for them. When you do these things, afterward you need to somehow continue doing what you set out to do.
4- Do things for a good cause. This means a couple of different things. When you do things, make sure it is for a good purpose. You should already know not to help anybody - no matter how close, do something that will harm another person. This can also mean to participate in events that help others. When you do this, sure there may be some kind of ulterior motive that will somehow benefit you, but it is better if their isn't, because that is not really what you are trying to achieve. Remember, happiness is priceless, though
5- Give to everyone...even those who are ungrateful. Giving is a lot more difficult than it sounds. For others, it is really simple. Whether giving is something that you need to work on, or comes naturally, it may seem hard to give to people who do not appreciate what you do. That may even be irritating. Sometimes, the good that you send out is and the feeling you will get is a good enough praise. Giving really builds up your image of being selfless and your personal belief that you are selfless. Always remember, no good deed goes unnoticed.
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